Networking Doesn’t Have to Feel Forced, Awkward, or Exhausting

If you’re an introvert, you’re probably used to hearing advice that feels overwhelming:
➡️ “Put yourself out there!”
➡️ “Go to every event you can!”
➡️ “Just reach out and ask for what you want!”

But for many people, networking feels uncomfortable—especially when you're in a job search and feeling vulnerable.

Here’s what I tell my clients:
👉 Networking doesn’t have to be a performance. It can be a conversation.

Let me show you how to approach networking in a way that feels natural—even enjoyable—if you’re an introvert.

1️⃣ Shift Your Mindset: Networking is About Building Relationships, Not Asking for Favors

The biggest reason networking feels awkward?
➡️ Because we think we have to ask for something.

But real networking is about building relationships, not making a pitch.

Instead of thinking, “I have to ask for a job,” think:
➡️ “I want to learn from this person and see where the conversation goes.”

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Rejection. It’s a word that can sting, whether it’s after a job interview, a networking event, or even a conversation with someone you admire. You’ve likely experienced that sinking feeling—the doubt creeping in, making you question your worth or abilities.

But here’s the truth: rejection doesn’t define you. It’s a stepping stone toward growth and resilience. In this post, I’ll share how to reframe rejection and use it as fuel for your next big opportunity.

What Is Rejection Really Trying to Tell You?

Rejection feels personal, but more often than not, it’s simply feedback. A “no” could mean:

• The opportunity wasn’t the right fit for you.
• The timing wasn’t ideal.
• You need to adjust your approach or messaging.

It’s not a verdict on your abilities or your potential—it’s information. When you reframe rejection as a learning opportunity, you begin to see it as part of the journey, not the end of the road.

Case Study: How She Reframed Rejection and Landed Her Dream Job

One of my ...