How do I follow up with my network without feeling transactional?

Continue the relationship with context, usefulness, and genuine interest—not only when you need an introduction.

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Short answer

Continue the relationship with context, usefulness, and genuine interest—not only when you need an introduction.

Follow-up becomes awkward when every contact is attached to an immediate need. It becomes natural when you treat professional relationships as ongoing and pay attention to what matters in the other person’s world.

Use a reason that belongs to the relationship

Thank them for an earlier conversation and share what you did with the advice. Send an article connected to a topic you discussed. Congratulate a meaningful announcement. Offer an introduction that serves both people.

Specificity shows that the earlier conversation mattered.

Create a sustainable rhythm

You do not need a complex system or constant contact. Keep brief notes, set a few reminders, and reach out when there is something real to say.

When you do need help, be direct and appropriately specific. A genuine relationship can hold an ask; it simply should not exist only for one.

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