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11.12.2024

 

Following Up After an Interview with No Response

  • Waiting on responses can be challenging, especially with the uncertainty involved. Focus on actions you can control, like adding value in your follow-up. Instead of a generic check-in, consider sharing insights or ideas relevant to the company. This keeps you engaged professionally and also emphasizes that your skills are in demand beyond just one company. Remember the value of focusing on thoughts that serve you. Instead of “Why haven’t they called?” try shifting to “How can I add value in this waiting period?” This approach redirects energy toward productive action rather than stress over the unknown​.

Sending Follow-Up or Thank You Notes

  • Thank-you notes aren’t mandatory but can be meaningful if they align with your style. The key is to make follow-up authentic—if gratitude feels genuine, express it, as it can reinforce your professional energy.  Practicing intentionality in your actions, such as sending follow-ups because it’s true to your style, aligns with the idea of “thinking on purpose.” Choosing actions that align with your professional persona can also create feelings of authenticity and confidence​​.

Overcoming Interview Anxiety

  • Shift your mindset—an interview is a relationship-building opportunity, not an examination. Aim to present yourself as you would in the role, rather than as a candidate hoping for approval.  Your mindset is key—consider replacing  “I need to be perfect” with “I am here to connect and share my expertise,” allowing you to approach interviews with confidence rather than anxiety​.

Balancing Current Work and Job Searching

  • Keep up with your responsibilities by focusing on impactful tasks. Regularly schedule job-search activities to maintain momentum without affecting your current performance.  Maintaining thoughts like “I can balance both” or “I’m building my future while contributing here” helps to keep professional energy and prevent overwhelm​.

Organizing a Job Search

  • Treat your job search as a professional project. Dedicate structured time weekly (e.g., 80% on networking/interviewing and 20% on admin tasks) and stay organized with detailed follow-ups and tracking of interactions.  Intentional actions follow intentional thoughts. Shift from “I feel lost” to “I am organized and proactive in my search.” This thought-action alignment can create both satisfaction and measurable progress.

Negotiating Salary Confidently

  • Approach salary discussions as an opportunity to showcase your negotiation skills, something employers value. Aim for a figure that might receive a counter but keeps negotiations open.  Replace “I’m afraid of asking too much” with “I am worth this offer,” which fuels confidence in your request​.

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November 5, 2024

 

How Can Job Seekers Network Effectively?

  • Focus on Relationship-Building: Instead of seeing networking solely as job-hunting, approach it as a way to build lasting connections. Each networking conversation can be treated like an informal interview, giving the opportunity to showcase value and career direction. Effective strategies include reconnecting with past contacts, sending follow-up thank-yous, and summarizing key points to keep the connection strong.
  • How to Turn Networking into Future Opportunities? Opportunities are more likely to emerge from established relationships rather than a transactional approach. Job openings are often known within networks six to eight weeks before being posted online, so consistent networking is a proactive way to discover roles early.

How Can Job Seekers Handle Rejection and Self-Doubt?

  • Reframe Rejection: Rejections aren’t personal setbacks but a part of the hiring process. This perspective helps job seekers manage emotional responses to rejection, in line with thought-management practices from Brooke Castillo’s Self-Coaching 101​.
  • Use Interviews as Networking: Each interview offers a networking opportunity, regardless of the outcome. Candidates can expand their professional connections, potentially leading to future openings even if they don’t get the job.

How Can Candidates Communicate Their Value Proposition in Interviews?

  • Highlight Key Strengths: Candidates can craft a compelling value proposition by identifying problems the role aims to address and aligning their strengths with these needs. A strong approach is to provide a brief career overview that demonstrates qualifications and then emphasize three key reasons why they are a great fit. These points can be reinforced throughout the interview.

 

What’s the Best Way to Manage Time and Avoid Burnout During a Job Search?

  • Use Time Blocking and Prioritization: Job seekers can use familiar time management strategies, such as time blocking, to organize tasks like networking, research, and applications. Scheduling outcomes for each task and including personal time can prevent burnout.
  • Suggested Time Allocation: Spending 80% of job search time on networking, 15% on applications, and 5% on personal time helps maintain balance and focus.

 

How Can Job Seekers Maintain Connections Without Being a Nuisance?

  • Follow-Up by Adding Value: To stay on a contact’s radar without overstepping, it’s helpful to add value by sharing relevant industry news, event invites, or congratulations on achievements. This approach keeps connections active and shows genuine interest beyond immediate needs.

 

What’s the Best Way to Negotiate a Severance Package?

  • Know What to Ask For: Severance packages are typically negotiable, so consider asking for more weeks of pay, upfront payments, or even a payout on outplacement services. Candidates should approach these negotiations with confidence.

 

How Can Introverts Network Effectively?

  • Networking on Personal Terms: Introverts can network authentically by treating it like relationship-building in the workplace. Focusing on one-on-one interactions rather than large groups allows introverts to be themselves without adopting extroverted habits.

 

Is It Enough to Job Search Solely on LinkedIn?

  • Prioritize Human Connections Over Job Boards: While job boards like LinkedIn are helpful, human connections are essential for a faster, more effective job search. Proactively networking and having conversations often yield better results than relying solely on online applications.

 

How Can Job Seekers Use This Time for Personal Growth?

  • Adopt a Growth-Oriented Mindset: This period can be valuable for self-development, skill-building, and honing time management and networking abilities. These actions align with self-coaching principles that encourage intentional growth beyond one’s comfort zone​.

 

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October 22, 2024

 

I'm interested in starting my own consulting business, but I'm unsure where to begin. How can I branch out on my own?

Starting your own consulting business is similar to a job search. Define your unique value, meet people, tell them what you do, and make offers to help. The key is to keep it simple: meet people, tell them what you do, and help them—just like in a job search.

I'm scared of making a career change. Can you help me figure out what I want to do next?

Change is scary, especially when you're leaving a comfortable environment. Growth happens outside of your comfort zone. Identify what you want, why you’re scared, and understand that acting despite fear is key. Your brain may want to keep you safe, but stepping outside your comfort zone is the path to achieving your goals.

My current role doesn’t align with my long-term goals, but I don’t want to lose the progress I've made. How can I pivot effectively?

A career pivot doesn’t mean losing progress. The sooner you make the move, the sooner you're on the path you want. Be clear on the value you bring to the new role or industry, and communicate it well. Focus on what you want to do in the future, not just what you’ve done in the past, and use that to show your worth.

I feel like I'm not being recognized for my work. How do I get the recognition and promotion I deserve?

Recognition isn’t just about self-promotion. It’s about demonstrating the meaningful value of your work to others. Focus on doing the work of the role you aspire to before you get promoted. If you consistently show you can do the job at the next level, recognition and promotions will follow.

I’m feeling burnt out and uninspired in my current position. How can I rekindle my passion for my career?

Burnout often comes from trying to meet others' expectations. Focus on your own expectations and what makes your work meaningful to you. It might require a mindset shift to reconnect with what excites you. Consider discussing your situation one-on-one to get personalized advice and strategies.

I’ve been searching for a job for over six months with no success. What else should I be doing?

I share five strategies for job searching:

  • Manage Your Mindset: Job searching can be mentally exhausting, and it's easy to get discouraged. The first step is to manage your mindset by staying positive and keeping your confidence up. Understand that setbacks are part of the process and that perseverance is key. Use tools like meditation, journaling, or talking to a coach to maintain a balanced perspective. Remember, your mindset is a powerful tool that can propel you forward or hold you back.

  • Favor the Future: It's common for job seekers to dwell on the past—thinking about what went wrong or what they could have done better. Instead, focus on where you want to go. Visualize the kind of role you want, the contributions you'll make, and the impact you’ll have. When you speak to others, talk more about your future goals rather than recounting past experiences. This future-oriented approach will not only energize you but also inspire those around you to support your journey.

  • Collaborate with Others: Networking is key to a successful job search. Remember, you won’t find your next role without involving other people. Reach out to your network, attend industry events, and collaborate with those in your field. Networking and interviewing are two sides of the same coin, and the more people you speak with, the faster you’ll make progress. Think of every conversation as a chance to build relationships, not just as a means to an end.

  • Take It Step-by-Step: Job searching can feel overwhelming, especially when you think about everything that needs to be done. Break it down into smaller, manageable steps. Set daily or weekly goals, such as reaching out to a certain number of contacts or applying for a specific number of jobs. Celebrate small wins to keep yourself motivated. The goal is to keep moving forward incrementally—each small action brings you closer to your ultimate goal of landing the right job.

  • Evaluate and Improve: A successful job search requires continuous evaluation and improvement. After each interview or networking conversation, take some time to reflect on what went well and what could have been better. Use a simple evaluation process: What worked? What could be improved? What will you do differently next time? This constant feedback loop will help you refine your approach, increase your effectiveness, and ultimately get better results.

Is the job market more competitive right now? What are your thoughts?  The job market is always competitive. Success depends more on your consistent effort and staying actively engaged. Focus on being in the game and putting your foot on the gas, rather than worrying about market conditions. There are always opportunities for talented people who take action.

 

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October 15, 2024

 

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I’m feeling overwhelmed and burnt out by the job search. What can I do to get through this?

Overwhelm is a common experience during both active and passive job searches. Focus on taking small, actionable steps forward. Every step moves you closer to your goal, and that helps manage burnout. It’s crucial to stay connected to your professional identity and not let the job search define you. Progress, no matter how small, is the antidote to overwhelm.


How do I explain that I was let go due to a company restructure when the interviewer focuses on tenure and performance?

When explaining a layoff, keep it factual and focus on the business decision. Highlight that it wasn’t performance-based, and talk about the growth and learning you gained from the experience. It’s also important to convey confidence and focus on your next steps, rather than dwelling on the restructuring. Many companies understand that layoffs due to restructuring are common, and it’s not usually a red flag.


How do I prepare for an HR screening interview?

The HR screening interview is typically designed to confirm that you match your resume. Be clear and concise when discussing your experience. One key question that will likely come up is about salary expectations. Avoid anchoring the conversation to what you have made in the past; instead, ask what the company’s salary range is for the role. This keeps the negotiation open and allows you to assess if it aligns with your expectations.


How should I address the fact that I don’t have experience in a specific area the company is looking for?

If there’s a gap in your experience, address it head-on. For example, you can say, "I’ve never worked in this specific area, but I have done similar work that required the same skill sets." Provide a clear plan on how you would get up to speed. Being proactive shows self-awareness and helps mitigate any concerns about the experience gap.


How do I answer behavioral interview questions effectively?

Use a structured format like STAR (Situation, Task, Action, Result) or CART (Circumstance, Action, Result, Talk shop). When giving an example, conclude by explaining what the story means for the company you’re interviewing with. For instance, explain how you’ll apply the lesson from the example to ensure future success in the role.


How should I answer questions about salary expectations?

It’s important not to discuss your past or current salary. Instead, ask what the salary range is for the role, and then decide if it’s in line with your expectations. This keeps the conversation open and focuses on the current opportunity, rather than tying you to your previous compensation.


How can I avoid selling myself short during a job search?

The key is to clearly define the unique value you bring to an organization. It can be challenging because we often think that what we do well is common. Take the time to understand your strengths and what sets you apart. Once you can articulate your unique contributions, you’ll feel more confident and avoid selling yourself short.


What’s the best way to follow up after an interview?

A personalized thank-you note is always appreciated. Mention specific points discussed during the interview and express gratitude for the opportunity. Avoid asking for a status update. Instead, provide value by sharing additional insights or observations related to the role or company. This keeps you top of mind without appearing impatient.


I’m getting interviews but not final offers. How can I improve?

If you’re getting interviews but not landing offers, it means your resume and interviewing skills are working well, but something is missing in the final stages. Evaluate your performance in those final interviews—what went well, what could be improved, and what you’ll do next time. Consider doing extra work ahead of time, like preparing a 30-60-90 day plan or a case study. Focus on showing the company what it would be like to work with you.

 

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